Barna Research Reveals Four “Mega-Themes” in U.S. Culture (#3)
Most parents want to do a great job of raising their children. However, Barna studies conducted among parents of children under 18 revealed that few parents have a strategy or plan for how they will accomplish that goal. Barna’s surveys point out that most parents underestimate the influence they can exert on their children. Consequently, they often neglect activities that would strengthen their relational bond with the children. Many parents, even those who are Christians, overlook the need to foster deeper a connection between their children and God, or to enhance the child’s worldview as a critical component of their decision-making skills.
The church must acknowledge that God’s word provides guidance for marriages, families, and relationships between parents and children. The church has an incredible opportunity to influence family life in our nation by providing classes which communicate God’s will and plan for families. Churches must be cautious lest “church activities” separate children from parents rather than providing shared family activities and strengthened bonds. Further, the church must not hesitate to assist parents by providing “world-view” and values-based training in Bible classes. The church is the place where Christians expect help in understanding how to help children connect with God.